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Cher reflects on romance, friendship with Val Kilmer: 'He's like nobody I've ever known'
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Cher reflects on romance, friendship with Val Kilmer: 'He's like nobody I've ever known'

Cher and Val Kilmer were in a high-profile relationship in the early 1980s, and Cher is still just as fond of Kilmer nearly 40 years later—just in a different way.

The 75-year-old Grammy and Oscar winner penned a first-person essay for People and painted an intimate portrait of the bond she shared and still shares with the 61-year-old actor.

"He's like nobody I've ever known," Cher wrote. "He is exasperating and hysterical. Thrilling and funny, and doesn't do what anyone else does. I don't know how we stayed friends, we just did. We didn't try. We just were."

The chart-topper revealed that the duo had nicknames for each other—Sid and Ethel, Valus Maximus and Cherus Reprimandus—before acknowledging their 14-year age difference ("It was a bigger deal back then") and touching on Kilmer's excruciating battle with throat cancer that cost him his natural ability to speak, captured in the Amazon Prime Video documentary Val.

An excerpt:

"Our sense of humor, and what we would put up with from one another, was more than I think I've ever had with any other guy. He would just go off and do his own thing and you just had to be prepared. And he was so beautiful. It went from madly in love and laughing hysterically to respecting each other's ability. "He was at my house a lot of the time he was sick. He was brave the whole time. I saw how sick he was. Once when the paramedics showed up after he was so sick and coughing up blood, he looked at me and I looked at him and we both knew what we were thinking. Because those guys are so handsome.  When one of those paramedics comes to your house, you just know you're going to see somebody who's really cute. "I told him I saw the documentary (Val). I said, 'Sid, it's you.'  He is so creative like nobody I've ever known and how brave he was to do it in the way that he did it.  He's an artist. He can be a brat too but you forgive him. You forgive him everything. Even when I was angry, it was still a joy.  If he called, it wouldn't matter where I was, I would go.  "I loved him—and I love him.  I [just wrote to him], I said, 'Valus Maximus, I'm sorry if I did anything to piss you off or hurt your feelings. I love you and your documentary was all things... I love the things that pissed me off, the things that made me hysterical, amazed, hurt, astonished, etc. You are brave and beyond brilliant. Ethel.'"

In November 2016, Kilmer wrote to Facebook that he had "no cancer whatsoever" in response to a comment made by Michael Douglas. Kilmer publicly admitted his throat cancer in April 2017, though it was originally diagnosed in 2015.

Val, which received a standing ovation at Cannes earlier this summer, is narrated by Kilmer's 26-year-old son, Jack, while his 29-year-old daughter, Mercedes, is listed among its producers. Ting Poo and Leo Scott served as directors.

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